so, here’s the thing guys-
respect noah and ben’s privacy.
i know that they are dating, but they are real people and their privacy needs to be respected. they are real people and you should not be sexualizing them in any way shape or form.
you should also not be like “uwu soft bean baby gay boi” either
both of those are nasty to put really people in the positions of.
i get it’s an exciting thing for both ben and noah fans, but they are real people.
thank you for reading this and i am open to criticism and debate in the comments :)
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I hate people sometimes
wait...people are doing that??? fr??? jfc
not yet that i know of. i’m just trying to do my best to prevent it before it happens.
As a lesbian myself. It’s actually one of the reasons my ex gf and I broke up. Everytime we held hands in public or even hugged, everyone was either completely friendzoning us... or trying to over sexualize our wlw relationship with stuff like “making out.” Respect others privacy. Just like you shouldn’t ship characters just because they’re gay; don’t do it with people either. Respect others privacy.
And ....
Relationships are built on personality, not sexuality.
yes! exactly! i’m sorry for your experience. my ex girlfriend and i went through the same thing, so i know what it feels like.
for irl people, i like to say , don’t ship.
Reply to: :sunny: hobart :sunny:
True. That is a good phrase. But the other one is just my shipping motto in general. I find it bad that people only ship because they’re gay or whatever.
I agree. I feel VERY uncomfortable when people are calling people "soft gay uwu" like george salazar, there more than just gay cmon dudes-
I absolutely agree with this statement, fetishizing the gay community/real life and fictional homosexual couples is unacceptable in every way. You can ire the relationships, but going all out and fetishizing them in gross ways is absolutely not okay at all.