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mika 24 days ago
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Well, you all have never heard of me yet, but here we are! This is basically a little introduction to my life and also a little cry for help.

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I’ve always felt like I didn’t belong among girls, I felt i lacked femininity that they had. I still feel like i lack that even tho being a female makes me feminine automatically. I didn’t really care about my appearance, like other girls who have already started developing their styles, started looking after their skin and hair. It is probably normal for 12 year olds to be this different.

But now at 18 yo i am so confused about what i should do about me to be pretty. I’ve got no idea how to deal with my skin, hair, hands and body overall. What creams help moisturise my body? Should it be a different cream for different body parts?

What should i wear? I want to look my age, not younger, maybe a little bit older but not too much? I’d love to be more feminine but i just have no

idea where to start. What about my hair? I started having short hair since the year 2019 or something so I don’t know at all how to look after long hair. What haircut should I get when it grows long?

Isn’t it time consuming too? Nor my mom, neither my friends have ever taught me how to look after myself like they do. I just never asked either.

How do I do my makeup? There are so many questions that i have. How to dress more feminine and less like a teenager? Even if I am one honestly I’d like to be taken more seriously by the people who surround me.

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So the main point of that post is. Have you got any tips? What are the 20 year olds wearing nowadays? How do y’all do your makeup? Is there any product that could fasten the process of growing my hair back?

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Here are some pictures for you all to judge me. Don’t hold yourselves back!!

Also on some of them my hair looks very different. Don’t mind that. OMG my hair pisses me off so bad i honestly kind of regret always cutting it.

Also that is my face on my profile picture so if anyone has got makeup suggestions, please let me know

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my fashion icon
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it’s like one of my favourite fits so i wear it often
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wore it once but i love it(i ripped the thighs though💔💔)
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i often wear just some jeans with sweater or smth
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a pic when i was still debating if i should get the skirt
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also jeans + t-shirt(this one was a pantera t-shirt) + my fav coat
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the only picture i have of my lolita outfit
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I fully agree with Aim, your sense of fashion is amazing.

I also want to reply to what you asked them. I struggle a lot with fashion myself, so maybe my advice isnt the best, but I think you should ask yourself "What makes this outfit looks like it's gor a teenager?" "What makes an outfit look more mature?"

Personally, one thing I notice that makes outfits look like they're for teens, is any trending item. Like the leg warmers for example. I wouldn't expect to see any older and mature looking adult randomly walking outside wearing those. ( But it's okay if some do, it just seems youthful ) Thems internet clothes.

Anyways, I hoped this helped a little :revolving_hearts:

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0 Reply 5 days ago

Ur outfits are hard asf and ur not even trying, keep going bro

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2 Reply 19 days ago

they may be hard asf but i look like a teenager :broken_heart: :broken_heart:

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1 Reply 14 days ago

Reply to: mika

Js wait and get older :100:

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0 Reply 14 days ago

Ahhh i love your style and your hair I fk with it so bad ngl.

Mmm tips, I'm also 20 learning still tbh so i can only say just research a lot. I never got taught either how to do makeup or skincare. Skincare is a whole other level that your gonna have to figure out on your own bc everyones skin is different, but just wash your face with face wash that works best for you and yes different moisturize for only face and makeup....that I'm still learning but tbh i just use wtv makeup tools for wtv i want like using eyeshadow to outline my lips. I also wish to get guidance, but yk wat its an adventure so make it fun and do wtv! Fashion and style is just your preference anyways!

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3 Reply 21 days ago

okay, thanks, that’s actually a solid advice since no-one can decide what’s best for my skin other than a dermatologist lolz

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2 Reply 14 days ago
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