Peer Pressure

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Peer pressure, we've all probably experienced it at some point in our life. Peer pressure can either effect you in a positive or in a negative way depending on the situation. Today I'll be informing you with some ways to deal with negative peer pressure.

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What is negative peer pressure?

Negative peer pressure is when someone your age tries to get you to do something. Peer pressure is something that is very easy to give in to because everyone feels the need to fit in and be liked. Sometimes that may not be the best option for yourself and could actually harm you more than it benefits you. Negative peer pressure can be anything from influencing another to drink, smoke, cheat on a test, lying or even skipping class. The list is endless.

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How can peer pressure effect me?

Peer pressure is both harmful and effective because it can often times lead to things like teen depression, high stress levels, negative behavior issues and poor decision-making. It can also result in a low self esteem and self image. This can cause you to think badly of yourself which can become a very serious problem if the situation isn't resolved. It often causes people to have the feelings of not fitting in and not being good enough, this in result can overwhelm the mindset of a regular person. High stress and hurtful experiences seem to always be the result to giving in to peer pressure, due to the fact of all the negative aspects that can come with it.

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How can I overcome peer pressure?

The first way you can overcome peer pressure is by learning to be assertive. Learn to say "No" in a way that's calm, but yet firm and direct. , you're not asking permission to say no. Don't feel guilty for saying no because sometimes it may be a good thing and may actually save your future self from further consequences. Always be true to yourself and be clear with yourself on what you truly want.

Secondly, always know that you can ask for help if necessary. If it gets to the point where it is considered relentless bullying don't just wait for it to go away. Reach out to a trusted adult about the situation so that they could help you with the problem. Let someone know what's going on and how you're feeling. the sooner you reach out to someone, the sooner they can show up to help you through that situation.

The third way you can overcome peer pressure is by choosing your friends carefully. , that a true friend won't push you to do something that you don't wanna do. It also helps to have a friend when resisting negative peer pressure. Always make sure to have each other's backs and know that it's alright to talk to each other. Choose friends that stretch, motivate and encourage you to do amazing things. Choose someone who shares the same interests as you and can balance areas where you are weaker.

Lastly, you can deal with peer pressure by providing your own positive pressure. Rather than simply fighting over negative pressure, focus on providing a positive alternative. Surround yourself with positive people. It's hard to maintain a positive perspective if you are constantly being pulled down by the negativity of friends, family or peers. If you happen to get trapped in a negative conversation, gracefully try to change the subject to something more positive. However, if you're surrounded by negativity and peer pressure it may be best to change up your circle of friends in an effort to be surrounded by uplifting people.

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Always go with your gut!

If you personally feel like something isn't right for you, then it's probably not. Stick with what your gut says and try making other positive plans instead. Chances are you were right and if you would've chosen to do the opposite, it probably wasn't the best option for yourself. Learn to trust your instincts and do what's best for yourself.

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Well my dear this is it for now, I hope this post helped those who are currently struggling with this sort of situation. Please know that if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here for you no matter what happens. Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, you deserve to be happy.

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