Attracting Love & a Soulmate

Hello, Beautifuls!

Today’s topic is Attracting Love & a Soulmate.

Now, I was a little nervous about posting this because I don’t really want to share to much about this relationship that I could possibly enter into (it's a long story) because it’s kinda a strange story. So for right now, I’m just going to share a small part of my journey to manifesting a soulmate and as time progresses, if anything happens, I will share it with you all. But for now, let’s be a little superficial.

Let’s start with the most important thing of all when it comes to attracting someone,

You DO NOT need someone to make you happy!

Understanding this is crucial in attracting anyone at all. If you are not happy and fulfilled in yourself, I can assure you that you will not be happy with someone else. You need to have love for yourself and be grateful and content with what you already have before you can allow someone else to enter your life.

That being said, you have to look deep within yourself and tell yourself that you are beautiful, you deserve happiness, and you deserve love if you find that you are not happy with yourself.

I used to struggle with insecurity and self hate but once I started to see myself as beautiful, everything else started to fall into place.

I would also say that you should become the person that you would want to be with.

Now, this does not mean change your appearance or change all of your good qualities but it means to fix the parts of yourself that no longer serve you. This means, if you’re a jealous, insecure person, you should work hard to fix that part of yourself because I’m sure that you wouldn’t want to be with someone jealous and insecure. For example, I used to really hate myself. To the point where I would settle for anything, even a relationship that was abusive. I was angry and bitter.  I had to retrain my brain to cut out negative self talk and teach myself love so that I could be open a receptive to someone coming into my life.

I had to realize that I no longer want to settle for people that want to use me for my energy, people that aren’t as invested as I am, or people that don’t want the same things out of a relationship. I deserve happiness and I deserve true love. You do too!

DO NOT SETTLE!

Here are a few ways to change the way you view yourself:

Start by saying powerful affirmation mantras in the mirror in the morning and before bed at night.

Catch yourself when you say or think something negative about yourself. Replace this with a positive.

Every morning, write down one thing that you like about yourself and every night, write down an accomplishment that you were proud of during the day.

Raise your vibrations with self care and doing things that make you happy.

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Now that that’s out of the way, here’s something I personally like to do when manifesting a soul mate.

Get yourself a really pretty journal that you would love to write in. You’ll be writing in it a lot for the LoA so get attached to it.

You want to start off by writing down what you want in a partner.

Now for this part you can be as specific as possible. You want to be specific because you are no longer settling for anything less than this.

If you want someone hardworking, kind, gentle, successful, well dressed, etc WRITE IT DOWN!

The universe (and/or God if that is what you believe in) will bring it to you, you no longer need to worry.

The next thing is a bit crazy!

On a seperate piece of paper (*not in your journal*), you want to write down every insecurity, worry, problem, or fear you might have about this union. After, you’re done, simply just throw it away!

These worries and fears no longer serve you, so let it go!

Now you want do one of my favorite manifesting techniques,

scripting!

Now when you script you want to write about this person as if you are already with them, feeling every emotion and putting the emotion into your writing.

For example, “I am so blessed, and grateful to have met him/her. They always keep me laughing and have an amazing sense of humor. I am thankful that we met and I look forward to spending more time together.”

You can do this as often or as little as you like.

Here is the last and final step of manifesting a soulmate,

DETACH!

When scripting about a soulmate, do not try and read too much into it and take it too serious. Have fun with it. You want to be able to throw it out there to the universe and not worry about it. Once again, I do not mean to stop visualizing about it but you do not want to focus on the lack of not having someone. You want to continue to go about your daily life and just know that someone perfect with come to you.

Detach and let go, this is when you will see results.

Thank you for reading guys and if you have a questions do not hesitate to dm me or leave a comment!

The next topic will be….How to be a good manifestor!

Peace, love, & fairy dust!

Until Next Time,

MoonGxddess