Confidence

Soooo I used to be very hesitant about showing pictures of myself to people on here because I thought I didn't + it just made me uncomfortable. Little did I know that some people genuinely don't think I look ugly, big shocker. Besides from gender dysphoria, I used to be very self conscious about almost everything and honestly I think some of that is still apart of me. I still get anxious about if I look stupid in public or if I sound like an asshole.

I used to depend on people to make me feel better, but now I know I shouldn't depend on that. Instead, I should depend on myself because let's be honest, some people aren't gonna be able to make you feel better and you shouldn't be relying too much on them anyways. You gotta have a nice balance but I digress.

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Honestly I don't really tell myself that I look good or if I look bad, I just try to not think about that. Sometimes it'll randomly pop up in my mind but I mean honestly I steer clear of anything appearance related. I have a post that shows my face on here but besides from that I don't show myself at all. I might include a pic of me in this post though.

Anyways, I feel better now and I think how I got here is all thanks to me changing my views on life, having great friends, and thinking positively. But you have to this isn't a thing that changes instantly, you gotta work to feel better. Is it worth it? Yes.

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Do you guys have trouble being confident? If so, no worries, you'll be able to slowly become confident with yourself as time goes on. You could start by calling yourself handsome/pretty/whatever in the mirror, congratulating yourself when you finish an assignment, etc. You can always dm me too if you want advice or whatever.

Here are some photos of me that I look at sometimes haha, I loved my pink and blue hair but it unfortunately faded. I'm a bit out of my comfort zone ing this but ummm I guess fuck it?

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