First of all, damn... I'm really glad I came back to Amino and ed this community. It has helped me a lot and I've felt so understood... And safe.
I've come today to ask for your beautiful advice... Again.
So, some days ago I'd asked for advice on how could I avoid wearing a girly swimsuit on a trip two months far. One amazing human being told me I should just... You know, tell my mom about all my doubts about my gender.
I've talked to one of my teachers, whom I really trust, and she told me writing a letter would be a great idea.
Now, the question is: what am I supposed to write?
How tf am I supposed to start?
Should I be subtle or forthright?
Written by hand or typed on a computer and printed?
I already know when I'm going to give it to her and that's why I should start now. I just don't know how, I'm so scared. I have zero experience on this.
If you could help me with this, I'll be forever grateful!
—Alex
Psdt: Sorry if I made any mistake. English is not my main language ^^"
Comments (3)
Hello Alex! Lovely to see you. I’m gonna do my best to help you through this, okay?
Now what you should do first is write down your feelings about this whole situation. You should just be honest and flat out tell her the truth. If you be subtle, she might not get what you’re asking for or completely understand the situation. Explain how you feel about wearing a girly swimsuit. Let her know about your worries/fears.
Next, tell her what you desire. Give her a description of a swimsuit that you think would be best for you. Maybe attach a picture of a swimsuit that you have in mind. Tell her that if you follow through with this plan, it will make you feel so much more comfortable and happy. to be respectful and polite and be truthful to her. Try not to make things subtle or hinted at to avoid any confusion. Make sure to say please and thank you, of course! Maybe add an I love you as well. Be as nice as possible in the letter.
I don’t think typing it out or writing it by hand would make any difference, but perhaps you should write it by hand so she knows that it’s really you and it’s how you truly feel.
I hope I helped! If you have any other questions, don’t be afraid to ask! :blue_heart:
Oh my God, hi! It's nice to hear from you again. It's amazing the amount of I've received from you <3 I'll forever be grateful.
So... Being honest and forthright, got it. Explaining my feelings and desires with lots of respect. And writing it by hand, okay.
This helps me a lot! Thank you so much, really, you've been super kind to me and I really appreciate that ^^/
Reply to: WingFighter
I’m glad to know that I’ve helped! It’s no problem at all, just helping out a friend in need ^-^ it’s what I love to do! I’m always here if you ever need advice or want to talk about stuff! I wish you luck, Alex! I know you got this! :blue_heart: :blue_heart: