Time and time again we see young kids get pressured into thinking they have to be in a relationship to feel loved, they have to have a partner because being single is "bad", etc. It's absolutely sick and false, relationships don't automatically make you happy and they don't fix your mental issues either. Being single isn't a bad thing and I'm sick of people acting like it is. If you're a CHILD there is absolutely no way in hell you should even be thinking about being in serious relationships, you should be focused on being a KID.
Romantic relationships aren't a necessity in life, you can live a good life without being married to someone. To a lot of people being in a relationship is something they desire but to other people it's something they don't want and that's perfectly okay. I see a lot of 13 year olds literally on the verge of tears (not an exaggeration) because they cannot find themselves a girlfriend or a boyfriend so they feel "unwanted".
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If you need a sign from the universe to tell you that you're loved, here's that sign. People like me want you to feel comfortable and wanted, you don't need a relationship in order to feel loved. Obviously there's nothing wrong with wanting to have a partner but if you only want one because of some toxic ass reason then please stop what you're doing and think this through.
If you even want a relationship, you should let life take it's course instead of forcing yourself into a 2 month relationship. You should also go to therapy and seek professional help if your mental state is bad before even thinking about getting into a relationship. Obviously being in a relationship isn't ponies and rainbows, it can take hard work to keep a relationship goin', but you need to put in the effort.
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If someone around you implies that being single is boring or something of the sort, feel free to put them in their place. I'm currently single and I actually really enjoy it, I can do what I want and I don't have the stress of a relationship on my shoulders.
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As a member of the Ace community: hooray to that!!
If more people knew this more people wouldn't be heartbroken by people who don't know what they're doing or either wanna use their loneliness as a gateway to abuse them in relationships.
Say it louder for the people in the back!!!...I’m single too and I barely have the time and energy to maintain a healthy relationship. I just like the freedom of not having to stress about one.
Say it louder for those who don't believe you!
Good post btw :triumph: :clap: 🏻
Thank you!
I’m single as well and I honestly just don’t have time to meet someone and see where it goes lmaoo. People need to normalize not wanting a relationship as well.
Lmao for me I do have time but I don't give a fuck
Reply to: Keith :tm:
Yeah, I just don’t wanna do it online is all :sweat_smile: if it happens in real life then so be it