Understanding...

I really do not understand people... I was talking with someone in chat earlier and they wanted me to talk to them through another application. I explained to them that I would prefer to talk to them through here due to bad experiences with people on the other apps. Meaning scammers, spammers, etc... You would think i hit them with the way they reacted. Called me names and basically said i was a dreams queen etc.. Explain to me please what is so wrong with not wanting immediately give outmy personal info? Come on give me time to know you first.