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Tw: Feels of unsafety, mentions of transphobia and other prejudices and mentions of division in the community.
So as a Trans Nonbinary Panromantic Asexual person I feel really unsafe in my own community sometimes as I am the three identities people love to hate due to them not being "valid labels." The discourse is so bad I've been told that my sexuality doesn't exist and that being pan is insulting to bisexual people. In our community we're to scared to move forward and have more labels than Gay, Straight, Bi and Trans. It feels like that and it's so disheartening to see. I feel like policing labels and rejecting the ones that aren't harmful is really bad. The real threat is the people outside of the community who want to take away are rights and make sure we're not happy, so why are we treating other identities at that threat. The community should be a safe space where all are embraced and where we can unite together but at the moment I don't think it is a safe space especially with some cishet people hating on trans folk and the whole Pansexuality, Polysexual and Omnisexual are Biphobic debocale.
I feel like the policing we do in the community is bad but what do you think. Do you think everyone being united instead of divided would give us a fighting chat?
-Melody-
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Comments (7)
It's not the community it's the people in it.
True some people are just closed minded.
Dude my dad said you can't be ace and just ace. Apparently you either dont like romance and the naughty OR you frick everything and the slightest touch makes you horny??? HUH??? CAN I JUST JOLD HANDS WITH MG AND. E ACE AT THE SAME TIME IN PEACE???
Basically he thinks you can only be ace if your also aro
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Yeah unfortunately that's people's mind set about Asexual people these days people don't think I can't be attracted to people regardless of gender and be Asexual.
I think the community definitely needs to be more united I'm honestly sick of the bi vs. pan discourse because both are completely valid and I've been told that demisexuality isn't a sexuality and stuff like that before to. It's incredibly frustrating which is why the community needs to work on uniting instead of tearing each other down.
Completely agree. I'm exhausted as well with it.