I’m not gonna name s, for that wouldn’t be fair for them, but because this is a big issue I found myself in CONSTANTLY, I feel like maybe I should do this, cause it is related exclusively to the Miraculous Fandom.
If you’re only here to argue, trauma-dump, only talk about yourself or your problems, push me into agreeing with you, act ignorant on VERY sensitive topics, and etc, do NOT text me, do NOT my chat.
I am someone who easily identifies these and I will offend you when telling you off. I will mention you gaslighting me and call you out on your misinformation, and if that hurts you, I AM NOT THE ONE.
I ed the community BECAUSE I like talking about miraculous, and if I wanted to have to act like someone’s therapist, I would be on my way to study psychology, not be here kissing your boots and comforting you. It is not my job to do so and I will act on my lack of obligation.
I am making this post now because I am constantly getting blocked by people butthurt about the fact I held them able for their actions or just questioned their behavior trying to access the situation they wanted attention in. Each uses the internet for their reasons, I use mine to enjoy and lounge. I try to warn people of my behaviors and you constantly ignore my warnings because I act nice, but then act surprised when I shut off that agreeability you thought you could demand from me.
And this is also a good time to let s know: I kick people from my chat for a reason. Please try to move on from it because I promise I’m not some dumb individual on a power trip. My activity in Miraculous comes from my best interest in participating in the fandom, and it annoys me when s break my boundaries with nothing but excuses. If you do not see a problem, that is okay, but I do.
Sometimes, people will seek your attention by asking you trap questions that will lead to you encouraging them to vent to you, aware of it or not.
If you are okay with that being your situation, okay, but all I beg of you is that you don’t get mad at me for not being okay with it. Once again, my chatroom is a safe space, and the same way I kick people from my Pms for “breathing wrong”, I kick people from my chat for being a liability to the comfort I try to bring into a sort of dead chat.
With that said, if someone is trying to get you to “Understand and believe them”, the likelihood of them telling a lie as high, and they WILL slip up.
Please stop bothering me. Read my posts before approaching. My wikis have my boundaries, and so does my bio. You’d be doing yourself a favor to just do that.
I hope this doesn’t discourage anyone from befriending me, cause I do enjoy making friends. It just has been happening too often, and since I noticed people sometimes post about more personal issues, epah, taking my turn.
Have a good rest of the weekend everyone.
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Comments (10)
Fact! I delt with this as well.
Also wanna be friends?
Sure! I’m always open for new friendships
I totally agree with everything you said
I feel you on this, personally my life ain’t been good lately, not gonna trauma dump you and I don’t want a therapist, but sometimes I just wanna be inactive without being accused of ghosting people or not caring about them. Sometimes I just wanna be depressed without being accused of not caring about my friends.
People just need to understand not everything is about them. This is online, each individual has their limits and ways of reacting to certain emotions. It’s glaringly shocking seeing these people behave like TODDLERS at their grown age. Take your time and ignore these emotionally immature ones. If they cannot understand you may work differently, perhaps they do not deserve your attention.