I’ve ghosted a very close childhood friend for about 7 months now and I’m still haunted by it. But I’m probably not as hurt as my friend was. I did it because I was afraid I became too different for us to bond in the way that we used to. I promised myself that in two years I would come back when my life was less busy and I developed a stronger sense of self. The guilt is still gnawing at me and I think about them everyday. I know what I did was wrong. I want to say sorry but I don’t know if they would want to be reminded of me again since the damage is already done.
Would you want someone who ghosted you to apologize? Or would it make you feel worse?
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Personally, I wouldn't want to hear from the person as they made their choice and I would have already moved on by then. 7 years is a really long time, I move on in 6 months... But that's just my perspective
Yes
If someone ghosted me, I’d want them to apologize or talk to me. This sounds exactly like a predicament I’m in.
I’m sorry about that. I hope things get better for you
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Thank you. I was really hurt, but I also respect anything he decides. I’m doing better without him. Can’t say what it is for you or your friend. I wish the same to you.
youre saying ghosted, so im assuming whenever they texted you you wouldnt respond? and yes i do think u should try ing them!!