This is a question for the people on the trans scale, whether you're male, female or non binary.
Have you ever felt either (In my case not masc enough) or fem enough. And literally just breakdown and do the opposite of what helps you.
Like today, transguys don't shave right? Haha. Well I did and now I hate myself even more and feel less masc.
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I'm in a place where I have to present as feminine, but my long hair makes me feel super dysphoric cuz I really want to present andro
If you want to shave but not fully regret it, just give it a lil' trim. That's what I do at least lol.
It's always good to remind yourself that not everyone follows gender stereotypes. Cis guys shave sometimes, cis girls don't sometimes, it doesn't matter or relate to your gender at all
counter-productive but yes! I've been a lot better about it though because last year I kept shaving and plucking my eyebrows regardless of my better judgment of just to leave it be and be more masculine. Trust me, we've probably all been there at some point and a lot of it comes with being worried about what other folks think, also the changes that come with your body in general later on.