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Hello everyone it's me Aly, and I'm here with a post on how to come out.
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[CI]Hello everyone it's me Aly, and I'm here with a post on how to come out.](https://image.staticox.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fpm1.aminoapps.programascracks.com%2F7288%2F78ed37b988f894456a8a614c3b3425aaab2400b5r1-720-974v2_hq.jpg)
So here is the index of the things I will going over in this post like always. :smile:
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1)Ways of coming out
2)Examples
3)A letter to you all
4)Extras
5)outro
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Welp let's get this post going :eyes: :smile:
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Ways of coming out
1) Writing a letter
2) telling them in person
3)on purposely getting your self outed
4) send it by text
These ways of coming out are the best ways in my opinion.
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Examples on the ideas
1) writing a letter
Hello mother(father which ever), I'm writing this letter to you to tell you a few things. Please don't get mad and just try to understand this you don't realize how hard it is for me to write this or live like this so please just be considerate and accept me. What I want to tell you is I'm (insert which part of the LGBT+ you are), these feeling are painful to keep hidden and I hope you understand please don't reject me. I'm sorry if this makes you uncomfortable but this is who I am and who I need to be for me not you, I have known this for a long time and I didn't know how to tell you so I'm telling you by letter, when I get home we will talk more I promise but for now I want you to think about this and see how it is in my point of view. See you soon, I love you!
~(Insert name)
2)Telling them in person
Be careful when doing this, just start the conversation off lightly and go from there just tell them how you feel and what you wanna do in the future. Be safe and confident if they don't talk to you for awhile just let them have time they will eventually come around, just stay calm when telling them.
3)on purposely getting yourself outed
If you have any friends who know and accept you, have them "accidentally" out you to your parents. You can have them out you anyway you want, even have them out you at breakfast while you are eating, there are alot of ways but be careful.
4)send it by text
Hey, I just wanted to tell you I'm (which ever part of the LGBT+ Community you are), I just wanted to let you know and see how you responded, please don't hate me it's harder for me to come out then it is for you to accept me, so please be kind about it and not reject me because this is who I am and always will be wether you like it or not... Anyways I'll talk to you later, if not then it means you are giving me the silent treatment which won't help you in anyway, but see you later.
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My letter to you all
Hello everyone, this letter is for you all, I just want to tell you all how happy I am that to meet all sorts of people, you are all so kind and loving, some are even brutally honest which is okay I love people who are honest. This letter is for all of you for making all my time on this Amino great, I've met lots of great people and made new friends you are all wonderful and I love you all with everything I have. I am so happy to be apart of this Amino with so many great people and I hope to meet more and that this community grows to be the best it can be, everyone here is great, I love you all, thank you for making my time here the best time it has ever been I can't wait to meet new people and make new friends, so please stay around and maybe one day we can be friends. I love you all thank you!
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Extras
My inspiration for this post was I've had friends who are to afraid to come out and I thought this might help people come out, if it does then I'm happy I helped you come out.
I have came out for those who want to know, I'm a trans girl and I came out almost two years ago.
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I might make a post on how I came out in the future, so keep your eyes open if you are interested.
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~Alyssa Vee
Comments (52)
What happens if ur dad is a homophobic and the most stuborn person that could ever live ._. What do i do?
Time to get one of my friends to come over and yell that I’m ace!
I might try the letter, I tell my dad lots of things through letters anyway
I just walked into my parent bed room and said “I needa tell yall somethig” and then i said “Im bi” then i went to bed uwu
I think im gonna do the letter thing once i come out. Its just the best way to explain what gender i identify as cuz its not talked about a lot. Also i can hide myself in the bathroom while [person] reads it🤡