I could easily look masculine or feminine which is every gender-fluid’s dream. I also have a masculine brain so I just do most things without thinking just like a biological male would.
When I was in school all of the transgender students disliked me cause they didn’t see me as trans. Since I was too ing I didn’t “qualify” as a transgender which I found quite ridiculous.
The difference between me and them is that they don’t even try at all to blend in (I don’t try too) but if you don’t want to be misgendered or treated less human than at least try to accommodate.
•Im not bothered by this too much since I dislike calling myself transgender since well I don’t like outting myself in public and being viewed as less human so I just say cis.
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They don't like you, because this is your attitude towards them. This is superiority because you , and it's not justified, it's extremely off-putting. ing is not the goal for all trans people, and it shouldn't have to be. And blaming other trans people for being bullied, insulted, dehumanised and degraded for not ing? That's just horrific. Why would this attitude be likeable? I guess you're right, you do have the 'brain of a biological male' (pseudoscience by the way, gendered brains are not and should not be a thing), because the way you speak about other trans people reminds me of all the cis men who see us as less than human. Congratulations.
Reply to: Why
I would think twice about trying to lecture me on research and stats, given you don't know what a statistical test is, and nor can you read the conclusion of a study. You've demonstrated that, so trying to tell me what the research says? That's the height of arrogance. The brain may be a complicated concept, but we do know that it's plastic, and evidence strongly s that it isn't sexed or biologically very different from one gender or sex to the other. As I have demonstrated. I fact, as you have demonstrated, given the study you linked which you now refuse to mention. And yes, there may appear to be differences between men and women; I've already explained why twice now, with two authors you can use for proper, in-depth reading. That you refuse to acknowledge anything I say is not my fault.
No, your autism example is actually a perfect example for my point, not yours. The diagnostic criteria is molded around how men are socialised and taught to present, and in turn how this affects their autism. It is directly made to benefit men and how men are socialised to behave, rather than recognise objective symptoms of autism. Your idea of autism comes from Simon Baron-Cohen's 'male brain' theory, which has been rightfully criticised as neurosexist and outdated. One of Baron-Cohen's students conducted a ridiculous studying suggesting month old male infants preferred toy cars over female infants, as if men are biologically predisposed to enjoy automotive vehicles. This is the height of patriarchal idiocy you choose to defend.
You have no evidence to suggest that males and females have 'a slight difference in certain modules' outside of the brain being plastic and this being as a result of socialisation. We are being influenced constantly from when we're born, how would we measure that? We can measure plasticity because our brains are always changing, we cannot measure a non-environmentally affected brain, for obvious reasons.
No, I'm not the emotional one, I just don't have time for egotistical misogynists. Telling that you would call me emotional, with clouded judgement, that's what most misogynists say to women who have things to say that they don't like. I have the studies, the statistics, the research, and the information. I am not emotional, I am well-informed, far more so than you, with your study you didn't read, and the articles you don't understand.
You made a post asking why you're disliked, you got an answer.
Reply to: SuspendedInGaffa?
I agree with you with it not being biology, I was talking about the hormonal that affects the brains and frankly one side has more testosterone and estrogen than the other and both have different affects on how people feel and act. That’s what I was talking about. The links I sent were to show both of our points not just mine. My mind isn’t clouded like you think it is, my communication is very limited therefore many people tend to misunderstand what I am trying to explain.
There’s no need to be so aggressive with people, and “don’t have the time” then you just shouldn’t comment if you truly don’t have the time.
This could’ve have been a nice conversation but instead you take it to heart and think of it too emotionally and acted rude.
I’m a listener and I pay attention to each individual word that people have to say, even if I don’t agree with them. Even if their views appear rude, don’t attack, instead dissect why they think that and approach the conversation in a civil manner instead of attacking.
I understand what you said, and I see your point, but you misunderstood what I said which could be just a major communication barrier that I have to work on.
I’m not here to hurt people, I just have my own thoughts like I’ve said many times. Even if I don’t agree with the person, I never take it out on them, nor do I ever treat them less.
Now since I see that this post has caused you some sort of stress, I’ll delete it and my other post that made you and instead make special post so you’ll be updated. My attention for my post was to get certain things off of my chest, I tried wording it the least harmful as I could but apparently it tugs on a few people.
I’ll keep this post up for a bit longer just in case you have something else to say, otherwise I’ll just delete it cause like I said I’m a listener
Reply to: WhyMao
>> I’m so sorry but she’s so right .
>> You seem dreadful to be around . // Genuine //
>> It’s not just this post . It’s every post . You are so unlikeable sounding it isn’t even funny .
>> They didn’t dislike you in school because you ed , they disliked you because you’re like this . I don’t even know you in person and I can tell that’s why .
>> You got your answer , you asked why the others disliked you and you got it . Just because you don’t like the answer doesn’t mean it’s rude .